3 gentle secrets to an awesome (+happy+successful) life

3 gentle secrets to an awesome (+happy+successful) life

Greetings!
 
Guess what? If life's a bit of a struggle right now, you CAN gently make things better. You can be happier, healthier 
and more fulfilled. Even if you currently think you can't. Even if you're in a situation where there seems no way out.
 Why? Because today is a new day. Because this present moment is fresh and unique and full of potential. 
 
Here's a few ways that'll immediately and easily begin to create that change.
 
love1. Treat yourself really nicely - you can call this self compassion, self kindness or self love. 

 Whatever word or words that work for you. Be nice to yourself. I mean super nice if you can. Hug yourself. Put your 
 hand on your heart. Smile big and smile often. Treat yourself like you'd treat your bestest of friends. No need to 
 be embarrassed about this - it's all the negativity in society that's embarrassing. It's time to take a positive stand!This activates the nurturing and caring part of your brain to ease excess anxiety. See talks by Professor Paul Gilbert to learn more about this. 
 

 2. Take really TINY steps and celebrate them big
 
Feeling stressed all the time? Take a few deep breaths. Want a new job? Google new jobs in your area. Want to 
meditate daily. Start with a few seconds today. And after you've done that, celebrate. Literally say to yourself 
'yippee. I've made a super tiny step to less stress. I'm so cool.' Small steps are giant leaps in disguise. You can 
quote me on that one. :-) 
 
3. Let EVERYTHING be your teacher. 
 
I woke up a bit tired this morning. So today, I listened to my body and took a rest and didn't push myself. 
The other day, a random person insulted me. I used the chance to learn to smile at him and practiced some 
forgiveness. Whatever adversity comes your way, big or small, be grateful ASAP. Maybe you have cancer, or maybe you 
have a cold. I'm not saying it's easy, but I'm suggesting a way to a bit more peace and happiness. If you don't 
feel grateful, just write down what you've learnt from the challenge. It won't always be easy. That's where the 
self kindness and tiny steps comes in. 
 
You can even take this to the next level and think - everything that I experience is specifically sent to me 
to teach me a lesson in life. To help me grow. To offer me a chance to help others. Thanks for teaching me 
this lesson, dear Universe! 
 
Your friend,
 
Shamash
 
PS -  I'm happy that you're here, sharing your precious moments of life with me. Thank you! 
 
PPS - if you haven't heard, my latest online mindfulness teacher training is on early bird offer. 
See http://teachmindfulnessonline.com for the latest info
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Mindful Programmes & Courses

Shamash now offers online mindfulness course, mindfulness teacher training, mindfulness training for coaches and monthly mentoring. He offers a limited amount of coaching over the phone, skype or in person in Central London.
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